submission from jencatd:I hate how Hetalia forum RP has become so heavily focused on pairings these days.
When I first started RPing Hetalia everyone was willing to RP with everyone else whether they had a forum pairing or not, and you’d find nations from completely different parts of the world finding things in common and making friends with each other. Then over time things started changing and it got harder and harder to plot with someone whose character was in an “official forum pairing”, let alone thread with them. On some forums I’m on people only RP with whoever their character is paired with and the rest of the characters and muns can DIAF for all they care. Then people wonder why RP forums die. Go figure. This is a massive problem in RPs when virtually everyone is in a pairing aside from minor characters who are forever alone (“forever alone characters” are a whole separate rant I won’t go into here or we’ll be here all day), and muns playing minor characters can’t get RP even if they post in every plotting thread going because all the other muns are busy making googly-eyes at their OTP. Those same muns won’t even consider forging relationships with characters outside of that OTP even if they’re related to each other (friends, “family”, etc.) in nation-based RP. It’s things like this that make people quit RPs and sometimes even RPing altogether because why should they make the effort to work hard writing the app and apply to the RP when no one will plot threads or RP with them? And newsflash, people like to use the cbox for chatting and plotting too, not watching two people RP with each other so much that eventually the pairing those two muns RP makes them want to hurl. Cheers.









